Telling lies … a way of hiding the truth…. as much as we can. And we do it … so often … that all becomes ridiculous. by the well known romanian author Adrian Dumitru

I trend to believe that telling lies … it is normal … or even a positive thing into some circumstances.

Imagine for example that 20 years ago … because of some weird factors you had become a drug dealer …. selling and consuming that into your school.

You did it … for few years … and that almost ruined your life.

Fortunately … into one point something happened … and you could get out from that ugly story.

After years … you meet a person who just hates drugs.

The mother of that person was drug addicted … and simple ruined the life of the whole family because of that.

Even hear … the word drugs …. instantly drives crazy.

So … the question becomes … should we tell the truth, lie … or just hide the truth about the past?!

You see … suddenly we realise that … the lie itself has its positive side.

And … come on …. let’s get serious.

You are not anymore that person from 20 years ago.

Even the cells from your body had changed since then.

So … the lie … is a good thing.

…. sometimes.

Or hiding partially or totally … the real truth.

It is into the benefit of the relationship … cause the negative impact will be just … huge … and maybe ruin the relationship you have.

But … of course … on long term … all becomes difficult.

Parts of that truth … are revealed automatically by the passing of time.

And …

Well … another option is to explain those secrets … and the positive meaning of those lies.

… the real intention.

Also … clearly state …. that things had changed a lot … and today all is different.

So …. lies have a role.

… an important one and we should all try to understand and maybe accept their positive meaning into the relationship.

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